If your child does come out, take the time to sit down and talk things over. Take the initiative by affirming your son. Healing the Masculine Soul. I actually don't agree with ostracizing them from the community. It will also strengthen the bond between you, and a good parent-child relationship is one of the best lines of defense against homosexuality.
The firestorm of conflicting emotions you're experiencing — crying one moment, angry the next — is a common and understandable reaction from a concerned and loving parent in your position.
How can I be sure? When boys crossdress, play with dolls, and socialized with more girls than boys, they are more likely to grow up to be gay or trans, according to a review of scientific studies. When Homosexuality Hits Home: Some helpful resources on this are listed at the bottom of this page.
Is it okay if we ask a few questions?