The ability to go public about their relationships is very important to many gay men — even if it attracts negativity. On further investigation, I think it might be a bit more nuanced than that. It just turns out he didn't want his bf knowing that he was on Grindr. I got a girl Why do you care so much? If you want to not have a public photo on Grindr, or whatever, I can respect that.
At first I thought was not wanting to be out on display in a dating site because of their work, but that's only half the cases I found.
This is undoubtedly true. I wanted to keep my professional life and personal life separate. Originally published 29 January But it can mean fully closeted or cheating on a partner.
Maybe we're just thinking about it too much though.